Mei
Bernadette Maria Duisters
Eldest daughter of
Wim Duisters and Wati Tjahja
JAKA
Jaka Ady Saputra
Eldest son of
Tan Hian Tek and Yuliawati
At twenty, yes: we thought we’d live forever.
At thirty-five, I want to know even our limits.
I touch you knowing we weren’t born tomorrow,
and somehow, each of us will help the other live.
Adrienne Rich
Holy Matrimony
Our family invites you to celebrate the sacrament of marriage with a catholic wedding mass.
While all are welcome to join, please note that mass will be done following catholic rites in Indonesian. Please confirm in the RSVP form if you are Catholic and hoping to receive the communion.
Church of The Holy Family
6 Chapel Rd, Singapore
Saturday, 23rd November 2024
Mass will start at 12 PM
Wedding Dinner
The fun bit.
Wine and dine with us, wish us luck in life, and maybe say something nice about us if you're up for it. We'll be very happy if you do.
Canapé will be served when you arrive, and dinner will be a seated dinner. Unfortunately, Siri House is not halal certified, but we are not serving pork.
To accommodate all guest, we will need to do some bilingual switches during the event - please bear with us.
SIRI HOUSE DEMPSEY
8D Dempsey Rd, #01-02 Dempsey Hill, Singapore
Saturday, 23rd November 2024
Door open 6.30 PM
OUR STORY
That's us. Twelve years ago.
This is the very first photo that we took together, and if you squint real hard, you'll see relics of internet past: Twitter's old timeline, crudely assembled PC with R-DVD tray, CRT monitors and stacks of CDs under the table. Just two weird kids, bonding over movies and junk foods, taking comfort there is someone who can cope, and even enjoy, our idiosyncrasies without trying too hard.
Time holds no quarter - and since then, we've moved out that windowless room, grew the humble comic book collection in the background into a library that almost gave a mover a heart attack, halfheartedly ditched the PC for Macs, rolled our eyes when Twitter turned into X, and somehow ended up with four cats. Things are different - yet some things remain the same: we're still those weird movie nerds, and we still take comfort from one another - more than anything else in the world.
You got Questions,
We Got Answers
When is the RSVP deadline?
Please confirm your attendance by 11th November 2024.
Should you need to cancel or make changes to your reservations, please let us know as soon as possible.
Are kids welcome?
Yes, but please kindly note that we do not have children's meal. Please let us know if you need baby chairs.
What's the weather like?
It's Singapore. It's either hot or raining.
Most likely raining. Bring umbrellas.
Is the event indoor or outdoor?
All events will be indoors. Have you met us? We don't do well under the sun and we love AC.
What should I wear?
Comfortable dressy. Also, please wear sensible shoes. There are stairs leading to the venue and we prefer no broken ankles.
Transportation
The Church of Holy Family is located in the beautiful Joo Chiat. It's 10 minutes walk from Marine Parade MRT,and right across the Opp The Holy Family Church bus stop.
Alternatively you can just hail a Grab / Gojek / Tada.
The Siri House is located at Dempsey Hill. Please be aware that the area
have very limited access to public transport.
If you are using ride hailing service, please ask to be dropped at Block 8D Dempsey Road, or until you see the big Siri House logo next to stairs leading to the restaurant.
After the dinner, a shuttle bus will be available
to drop you off at the Somerset MRT.
If you are driving, the parking area near the restaurant are reserved for the wedding guests. Please let us know if we can help arrange for free parking.
I still have questions...
Before the wedding day, please contact Mei or Jaka if you have any questions.
During the wedding day, please contact:
Jasmine (Wedding Coordinator) - +65 9879 4721
Ayu (Groom's Sister) - +62 877-2898-7039
Ignes (Matron of Honor) - +62 857-1855-8899